TEN
ADVICES from a Supreme Court JUDGE who handled Family Dispute Courts.
They
say that Marriage is a License to Suffer.
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1.
Don't encourage your son and his wife to stay under same roof with you. Best to
suggest them to move out… even to the extent of renting a house. It's their problem to find a separate home.
More
the distance between you and your children's families, the better is the
relationship with your in laws.
2.
Treat your son's wife as his wife, not as your own daughter; maybe just treat
her as a friend. Your son would always be your junior but, if you think that
his wife is of the same rank and if you ever scolded her, she would remember it
for life.
In
real life, only her own mother and not u will be viewed as a person qualified
to scold or correct her.
3.
Whatever habits or characters your son's wife has is not your problem at all,
it is your son’s problem. It isn’t your problem as he is an adult already.
4.
Even when living together, make each other’s businesses clear, don't do their
laundry, don't cook for them and don't baby sit their children. Unless, of
course, there is a special request by your son's wife and you feel that you're
capable and don't expect anything in return.
Most
importantly, you shouldn't worry about your son's family problems. Let them
settle themselves
5.
Pretend to be blind and deaf when your son and his wife are quarrelling. It's normal that the young couple do not like
their parents to be involved in the dispute between husband and wife.
6.
Your grandchildren totally belong to your son and his wife. However they want
to raise their children, it is up to them.
The credit or blame would be on them.
7.
Your son's wife need not necessarily respect and serve you. It is the son's
duty. You should have taught your son to
be a better person so that you and your son's wife relationship could be
better.
8.
Do more planning for your own retirement; don't rely on your children to take
care of your retirement. You had already walked through most of your journey in
life; there are still a lot of new things to learn throughout the journey.
9.
It is your own interest that you enjoy your retirement years. Better if you could utilize & enjoy
everything that you had saved before you die.
Don't let your wealth become worthless to you.
10.
Grandchildren don't belong to your family; they're their parents’ precious
gift.
PLEASE
NOTE
This
message is not only for you. Please share it with your friends, parents,
in-laws, uncles, aunties, husband or wife to find peace & progress in life
as it is based on life long experience of a judge who handled family dispute
courts.
Source: WhatsApp Group Message [IPS 70RR—5/10/2018]
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