Warning: Bad Thinking Ahead



Let’s get serious for a while, shall we? Philosophy has always amazed me. And I mean philosophies from both sides of the world: Oriental and Western. If you take Philosophy as only “Spiritual” stuff, let me guess… you are an Asian. In western context, you don’t need to be a saint to be a Philosopher. Even atheists are Philosophers. How cool is that!? That’s why Jackie Chan says “This is the West, not the East. The sun may rise where we come from… but here is where it sets” in Shanghai Knights. Great Movie!!!

 

“Life is a suffering.”

 

Now stop giving me that look as when you lower your eyebrows and squint those  eyes. That’s just creepy. The opening quote is simply the first one of the Four Noble Truths in Buddhism. Lord Buddha left behind everything to find this answer to life, I suppose.

 

We suffer for our ego and obsession—the kind of obsession which Albert Einstein tagged as insanity—doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. We suffer for our obsessive infatuation to control the uncontrollable. We focus on what we cannot control where we drain up all our energy, time, and freedom to eventually become or get more of exactly what we don’t wish [to] in the first place.

 

If your Internet speed is so annoyingly slow that it’s already noon by the time you successfully upload your early-morning-yawning selfie on Instagram and nobody gives ‘like’ to your yawn — Stress and profanity won’t make you the Instagram superstar the next minute. And who would want to have a god-awful day looking at your drooling face and messed-up hair unless you’re some kind of awesomely idolized celebrity? Or, if you’re stuck in the traffic, then banging your head on the steering wheel won’t make the traffic move any faster. It will only get you a sore forehead (or a broken steering wheel!) and make you appear peevish, and you don’t want to be that. And to be what you don’t want to be and to be not what you want to be is hell. Well done! You’re now licensed to enjoy your eternal privilege to suffer.

 

Of the many phenomena, time is the greatest cause of our suffering because it’s one of those things that we can’t control, but nevertheless which we always try to, in vain, just to suffer. We just can’t grab our magic wand and hover over it to create more of. It’s not a fairytale. Life is no a Mario game. Time machine is merely a fiction.

 

Deep down inside, everyone wants more in life—happiness, success, and peace of mind. But we’re literally choking out our own life bottling up our god-given talents and abilities, eventually driving down the path of sufferings. Most of us tangle up our past, present and future that we cannot distinguish between the three. We often love to detach ourselves from the present or reality and get captured in the past or drowned into the future which doesn’t even exist. We’re so vulnerable to the fallacy of success that we forget to be successful in real life. We get so busy making a living that we forget to live our life.

 

Depression and anxiety are just enough to make our life a living hell. You’ll go nuts if you worry about everything that you did last year or everything that you need to do in the next month or everything that could go wrong in the next year. Quoting Lao Tzu here seems to be the best way to sum up this article: “If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present.”

 

Don’t beat yourself up. Tomorrow can take care of itself.

 

©LinkinMyth:Published Articles-Licensed to Suffer-Umesh Gurung-Republica

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